SPL: Spending Quality Time verses Quantity Time
SPL Habit: It is hard to resist being the “Cool” SPL and Buying the child things, or taking them places
Read moreChronicals of Being in a Step-Parent Limbo
What is Step-Parent Limbo you might ask? Well, it is the place one finds themselves — men and women — when they become more then just a “friend” to a child, but are not “legally” the child’s step parent or guardian. These are my stories of being in such a place, my daily struggles, decisions, advice and small victories. Follow me as I laugh, cry, and kick my way through this uncharted territory.
SPL Moment in the making
So it has been a while since I last logged on, you see I work an 80 hour Reatil management
Read moreWhat Thanksgiving means when in SPL
With the holidays fast approaching, and Thanksgiving being now only two days away, I felt it important to note the
Read morePhase 2 of being in SPL
We have entered the “Your not my Mom/Dad I am not going to listen to you” Stage of our relationship-
Read moreSPL Advice
It may feel exhausting, and at times frustrating when the child’s biological parents make decisions you don’t agree with, BUT
Read moreSPL Emotional Note
NOTE: It is a very peculiar feeling when left in this limbo. You’re in the child’s life weekly if not
Read moreMy First Step Parent Limbo moment
I first realized I was in ‘SPL’ the moment in which I made the conscience decision to end a very
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